12/15/2023 0 Comments Stop agonizing over what decision to make! Use Human Design to trust yourself.Do you get plagued with indecision? Are you constantly mulling over your choices? Are you afraid to take the next step towards your dreams? I have soooo been there! I’d go back and forth in my mind, weighing out ALL the options, and ultimately wouldn’t take action - staying frozen exactly where I was. Not making moves because I was afraid... Afraid of getting it wrong. Afraid of the judgment of others. Afraid to fail. Afraid it would all work out, giving me too much responsibility that I couldn’t handle. Afraid to change and leave the familiar life I knew behind. Imagine if you NEVER had to stress about making the right decision and you KNEW in your bones what the next step was. Well, what if I told you... There’s a built-in mechanism in your BODY that you can rely on instead of agonizing over what you should or shouldn’t do in your MIND! It’s called your Strategy + Authority in Human Design - others call it your intuition. You can learn to tune in and listen to what it is guiding you to do, which will always be right, correct, and healthy for you! BUT HOW!?!? Experiment with your Strategy and Authority! I call it the Trust and Verify Method. Use your Not-Self themes and Signatures as checkpoints to know if you are listening to your built-in decision maker. What does your Authority feel like in your body!? When you learn what the cues feel, sound, look like for your unique Authority you can begin to recognize when your body is telling you something is correct, right or healthy for you. By experimenting you'll also know when something is wrong, incorrect or unhealthy for you! Here is what it might feel like in your body for each authority type: EMOTIONAL AUTHORITY You will feel a rhythmic emotional wave that is unique to you. In an emotional low, you might feel tightness in your chest or a churning in your belly. In a high, you will feel a rise of energy that gives you a restlessness to move and create. Make space to ride your wave and return to your center - a feeling of ease and calm before you build your next masterpiece! SACRAL AUTHORITY You will feel energy rise from your lower belly to your throat when something Is a YES - making a gutteral uh huh sound. You might feel butterfly flutters In your belly or whole body tingles when your gut Is telling you to go for It. When something Is a NO, you will feel a descent of energy that hits the throat with an uh uh sound. That means your gut Is telling you. It's a no-go. SPLENIC AUTHORITY INNER whisper like "do this" or "do that"; it might not make logical sense, but you have an inner understanding and knowledge of what to do. Follow those intuitive pings or nudges you may feel tingling or pulsing sensations pulling you towards your next step. Respond to your inner urges and watch where it leads you. You can up-level your life very quickly when you follow your intuitive guidance and trust your instincts. EGO AUTHORITY Your reliable decision-making process comes from the heart center. So follow the urges of your heart, especially after you get that invitation. It's not selfish to follow what you want. Think I statement like "I want" or "I desire ." You will feel an opening In your chest - a surge of energy pulling you towards your wishes. Heart clearing exercises can help open you up to receive. SELF-PROJECTED Your decision-making comes from your connection to the identity center and the throat. Sense of self, direction, and love; you can literally speak from who you are. Listen to the sound of your voice, and express your decision out loud. How is the tone? Surrender to your Authority, and what does it feel like in your body? A No might raise your voice or cause a contraction in your throat. A YES might be an excited tone and expansive feeling in your throat. MENTAL AUTHORITY You have consistent access to your mind. Take time to weigh your decisions. Think of a sounding board; use others to bounce your ideas off of. Not to get their input but to mule over your choices and hear them out loud. You are constantly processing and conceptualizing. Notice how you feel in different environments and what feels right to you. You have a lot of open centers and can be sensitive to the defined centers around you. Notice how your body feels when you speak your decisions out loud. LUNAR AUTHORITY When you have no centers defined In your chart, you are a reflector. Your Authority Is connected to the lunar cycle (28 days). Before making an important decision, you should spend at least one lunar cycle contemplating and discussing your solution or action. Once you tune Into the lunar cycle and use It In your decision-making process, you will begin to be surprised and delighted by life! If you don't honor your unique approach and allow the world to rush you, you may find yourself suffering from disappointment and even dis-ease. Slow down and be aware of your environment and who you are around. If your environment FEELS good, then so will you! Remember, you are a mirror reflecting the core of their being. The Trust and Verify Method is all about believing these sensations you feel whether a decision is a YES or a NO and then verifying what you feel by taking action and reflecting on your Not Self theme (off track/out of alignment) and Soul Signature (on track/ in alignment). LET'S WALKTHROUGH AN EXAMPLE TOGETHER You are a Sacral being here to TRUST your gut and tune in for when you are flooded with excitement and verbally say yes to opportunities when they come to you. Or on the other hand you will feel your energy shut down and won't want to move forward. SCENARIO #1 An Invite to speak on a podcast comes through your DMs. Your body lights up in response, and a verbal hell yeah leaves your lips! You trust the yes and take the Interview. During the process, you are looking for verification that you are excited. You have the time of your life during the Interview and knock it out of the park. You notice how satisfied you feel when the Interview comes out. You realize Podcast Interviews are your jam! SCENARIO #2 Or maybe you don’t light up. The Podcast doesn’t excite you, and you notice you don’t have the energy to move forward. Buuuut your mind overrides the sensation and says, “This is a great opportunity you must take it! The Podcaster has 100,000 followers, and you need the exposure.” You take the interview, feel frustrated by the whole process, and your energy is meh on the day of the Interview - you bomb It, stumbling over your words. And after you are so frustrated with yourself for saying yes. Both scenarios are simply feedback; you gain valuable experience taking action, and the more you learn how your unique Strategy and Authority looks, feels, and sounds for you, the easier it becomes to trust yourself.You build confidence with your inner knowing and built-in decision-making mechanism that lets you know the best way to move forward. The key is being aware - when your mind tries to come in and override what you KNOW to be true for you in your bones. Let's connect!
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